The complexity of networks will necessitate our adopting more complex concepts of our personal identities and of our interrelating with others. I suspect that complexity will play out as logical paradoxes, both/and conceptions. For instance, I could think of myself as both a talented, unique somebody and nobody special - just one of us. Then I would relate as someone with special needs, requests, motivations and value to contribute while also being free to respond and reciprocate as if I'm no different from anybody else. If every node in an interpersonal network adopts paradoxes like these, the network would function very responsively, resiliently and adaptively in its context.