We need to change our frameworks, vocabulary and metaphors to networks & complexity. It’s definitely not about the technology, except in the broadest sense of the term.

In my opinion, this is absolutely right.

Deciding to work together on a wiki is just clicking a link somewhere in an organization's intranet, then finding the place you want to contribute, typing or pasting something, and saving. Using Google Docs is a breeze. Writing a blog post is not any different than writing someone an email (careful and thoughtful, or otherwise). The differences are smaller-than-minute .. open an app, type or copy n' paste or drag n' drop, then send / share / publish, etc.

As you state so clearly .. we need to change our frameworks, vocabulary and metaphors to networks and complexity.

See, as just one example, this excerpt (the prologue) from Alvin Toffler's Powershift, which was written at least 20 years ago.

That this has been coming for quite a while now has been evident. I believe making the changes on a large scale may not be quite as hard as everyone thinks, but only after embracing new frameworks and mental models and not trying to hang onto, or return to, the past.