BTW you'll probably note that in my chart, I've got "Caring, Sharing, Open" as one of the patterns. Note that this is actually one of the patterns that I wasn't quite sure about its order, thus I was continually shifting it around in different ways. I was trying to "force" it in though because all of the communities I built online had these characteristics.

For example, being Open could definitely relate to being playful and open to connecting to the possibilities around you. Caring seemed to equate to an emotional capacity which is why I put it first and yet caring usually comes after the initial connection in a relationship. I guess I put Sharing in the middle because to me it meant knowledge sharing, thus after people connect, they share info about themselves, thus eventually making them Care about each other (the union of the two).

Again, as you can tell above, it's one of the patterns I still haven't figured out. And possibly due to the words themselves, maybe they can't form a narrative, no matter how much I wish they could. :)